my life got better when i realized i didn't have to be nice. Nice got me used, stressed out and disrespected. I'm not nice. I'm a good person. there's a difference.
You’re not lazy. You’re tired. You’ve been living in survivor mode for so long. Your mind is exhausted! You are still processing trauma. Be kind to yourself please.
Just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… All that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
Deceiving a girl into thinking you genuinely care about her just to sleep with her isn't just manipulative,it’s a serious violation of trust and consent. It’s time we start acknowledging how harmful that behavior really is, even if society still avoids that conversation.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said “accountability is so important to me. nobody’s perfect, but don’t try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match” felt this to the core.
Seeing yourself get better at emotional regulation is great. It's like yay I'm acting different in challenging situations and not allowing temporary emotions throw me off course
"I got ACCEPTED!"
"I got the JOB!"
"I got the INTERVIEW!"
"I got the PROMOTION!"
"I got the HOUSE!"
"I got the CAR!"
"I got the GOOD NEWS!"
"I got the APARTMENT!"
"I gotta Blessing with my NAME ON IT!"
WE ARE CLAIMING IT FOR THIS NEW WEEK! ✨