you cannot get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them...even if it isn't deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. genuine consideration is key.
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.
Sometimes we’re so worried about how our boundaries make ppl feel that we forget to ask whether they ever considered how their actions made us feel. You’ve got to realise that being emotionally available doesn’t mean being emotionally unguarded with everyone.
Get a degree and make a career before getting married because there is no guarantee of a healthy spouse and healthy marriage but your degree and career will get you an independent life.