@DrGrumpy@PAcumbria There’s a reason why a child goes from ‘I want to see Daddy’ to ‘I’m scared of Daddy’ in the space of 2 weeks and it’s nothing to do with anything bad that Daddy did.
If a father misses one CMS payment, the system moves mountains to garnish his wages. But when a court-ordered weekend is 'cancelled' for the tenth time?
Silence.
INCREASE media/public EXPOSURE of ALIENATORS & CORRUPT SYSTEMS that ENABLE THEM. ALIENATORS & CORRUPT SYSTEMS must start seeing themselves in the media FAR MORE – GET THEM EXPOSED!
For a court to find alienating behaviours, all three elements must typically be proven:
The child shows reluctance, resistance, or refusal to engage in a relationship with a parent or carer.
The reluctance/resistance/refusal is unexplained (i.e., not justified by factors like domestic abuse, other harm, or the child's independent views).
The behaviours of one parent have caused or significantly contributed to this through psychological manipulation.
For a court to find alienating behaviours, all three elements must typically be proven:
The child shows reluctance, resistance, or refusal to engage in a relationship with a parent or carer.
900 - 1,000 dads commit suicide every year post div/sep because the mum and Govt agencies collaborate in keeping good dads away from their children, usually via the promotion of false allegations! The guilty must be charged and jailed for such actions!
I hope I have proved my credentials in objecting to the use of unregulated experts since 2019. If any court acted on her 'diagnosis' alone then that court judgment should indeed be overturned. Judges make findings about allegations, be they with regard to allegations of physical or sexual abuse or alienating behaviour. It is not for Gill or any other expert to 'find' that abuse etc happened, that is the court's role. Something has indeed gone very wrong if allegations of serious abuse were not assessed and determined by the court. But to claim, as the Commissioner appears to do, that parental alienation does not exist, is simply wrong.
There is no ‘diagnosis’. The issue is a child refuses to see a parent. If there is no obvious reason such as abuse, then the courts need to examine what is going on. Is one parent manipulating the child against the other? It happens. Men and women do it. Psychologists can be useful in offering suggestions for a way forward but there is no ‘diagnosis’ of parental alienation - just sadly infinite ways that relationships go sour and children are used as weapons against the other parent.