I’m sorry but they have to invite her to another ceremony even if it’s with another faculty.
They have to make the correction through an announcement kula ceremony just so she can have her moment. Kubhlungu kangaka ufunda😭
Also fire the person who didn’t check ID!
Some people shut down when they’re going through tough times. They want no sympathy and no advice. All they want is silence and some alone time. They know how to pull themselves out, just leave them alone for a while.
Guys,
Please register for the upcoming local government elections. And when you get to the polls, please don’t have amnesia about how this government is running Gauteng.
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it’s actually terrifying how much my brain has changed since i stopped being a bookworm. it’s not just about the attention span, though that’s definitely gone
i can’t even sit still for ten minutes without reaching for a distraction.
but the bigger shift is how it feels like my inner world has gone grey. i’m not nearly as creative as i used to be and that quiet, calm headspace i used to have is just gone. i feel like i’ve lost my vocabulary and my ability to articulate how i actually feel, so everything i say feels surface level and repetitive.
even my curiosity feels stunted. i used to wonder about things for hours, but now if i don’t get an immediate answer, i just lose interest. it’s like i traded my imagination for a shorter fuse and a total lack of focus. my personality used to have so much more color and depth, and now it feels like i'm just reacting to things instead of actually thinking. i'm just trying to remember how to be that person again.
I disagree that this lady is a bad person.
Hear me out before you drag me.
She never said she was unhappy about her friend’s progress. She only said that the frequent exposure to the friend’s progress constantly reminded her of her own inadequacies.
The last thing you want to see, when you're in a dark place as a result of a repetitive cycle of failure, is everyone else apart from you doing well.
This is especially painful if you're doing everything right yet things are not working in your favour. It makes you question your strategies, your beliefs, your patience, and sometimes, even God’s love for you.
Every day, people leave social media to avoid the pressure of seeing everyone else apart from themselves making progress. In fact, a lot of people have left social media platforms like LinkedIn because everyone over there seems to be achieving great things.
She deleted her friend’s number for the sole reason of not seeing her status updates, the same way people leave social media or mute some people to keep out the constant reminder of failure and the pressure that comes with it.
If she envied or hated the friend, she would have simply blocked her.
Now let me say this to people who judge other people’s progress based on social media posts. Social media is not real life and you should not judge your failure or success in life based on what you see here.
You feel that a friend who has just migrated abroad is doing well, but you don't see the tears that soak their pillows every night because they are lonely in an environment where people seem not to care about them.
You see a friend who just got a seemingly great job, but you don't see the pressure and toxicity that come with the job.
You see a friend get married to a seemingly great partner, but you don't see the internal family issues they battle.
I'm not saying that absolutely everyone who posts good things on social media definitely has a challenge they are going through. Some people’s lives are actually great. What I'm saying is that people do not post their bad days here, so do not be deceived by all that glamour.
If you currently feel like you're stagnant and you think not seeing the posts of people who seem to be doing well will help you keep the noise and the pressure out as you focus on growth, delete their numbers, mute them on social media, and do anything that works for your focus and mental health.
Personally, I don't feel intimidated by people who seem to be doing better than me. That's because I believe in myself so much that I know there's nothing, with God’s help, beyond my reach.
In fact, I love to contribute to people’s progress and feel very happy when they achieve success because that means they will not be a liability to me and are less likely to envy me when I finally achieve my own goals.
There is a young woman by the name of Noluthando Kossi, originally from Durban, South Africa, who is currently in Thailand 🇹🇭. She works at Beacon House Yamsaard in Rangsit, Pathum Thani. Previously, she worked at Princess Sirindhorn’s College in Nakhon Pathom, and later at a school in Lad Prao, Bangkok.
We are sharing this information because Noluthando is currently unwell. She has not reported to work since last Monday, and it has been reported that she has been wandering around the Lumpini Township area, Khlong 1. She appears to be dehydrated and has not eaten.
We are urgently requesting assistance in locating her close family members, such as her mother, brother, or sisters. If anyone has any information that may help, please share it with us. Noluthando is a very private and reserved person and does not often communicate with others.
We are concerned that she may be experiencing mental health challenges and needs immediate care and support.
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Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.