Sometimes you need your feelings HURT so you can finally WAKE UP and focus on YOU. Pain be tha loudest lesson. It'll snap you out that fantasy, clear your vision and remind you who you are. Everybody not meant to stay- some ppl just come to trigger your growth. 🎯
I think one of the saddest things about me is how long I can carry emotional pain without anybody noticing.I will still laugh. Still answer texts.Still show up.Still make people feel loved. All while quietly falling apart in ways nobody thinks to ask about.
Hardest pill to swallow is realizing people do not care. They’ll hurt you & really go on about their lives. Not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships, or family.
i hate when someone tries to strong arm me into giving them grace; you gotta let me decide that.
don’t do something to me, and then gaslight me into seeing it from your perspective. a lot of people do that shit and i find it wildly audacious.