As a Muslim woman, the best way to express your disapproval of a promiscuous man is to reject him when he approaches you. If you are married and you find your husband cheating, the best thing is to inform your parents and end the marriage
As a Muslim man, the best way to speak against promiscuous men is not to engage in promiscuity yourself. And if you are married and you find your wife cheating, the best thing is to divorce her
Only a runs girl would claim that all men cheat. And only a womanizing man would claim that all men or women cheat
All these media talks are not it.
The reason you are still poor is because you are shy. You are too scared to put yourself out there because of what people think or what they will say.
Look around you. There’s one common thing among successful people. From CEOs to successful entrepreneurs, skit makers, content creators, artists, footballers, traders, and so on — they are very shameless.
The word shame is very foreign to them. While you are there doing mental gymnastics about executing an idea, they are already doing it the moment it comes into their head. That is why they are successful.
Shyness has no single advantage. It won’t take you far in life. Everything you want is on the other side of shame and cringe.
& if you check yourself and realize you come from an average family that isn’t supportive enough, that your parents aren’t also financially comfortable
pay close attention;
if you know that within 24 hrs, your entire family coming together still couldn’t raise at least $10,000 in this economy, stay out of trouble. i’m telling you that for free. you have no business chasing endless enjoyment or la vida loca. your place is on the battlefield, working relentlessly on yourself.
i will always tell the younger generation the truth: poverty is far more damaging than most people understand.
if a sibling falls critically ill and the entire family still can’t raise enough money for treatment or surgery, that’s a reality you cannot ignore. i’ve also heard of people who secured life changing opportunities abroad, even free visas or contracts but lost em cos they couldn’t afford the flight ticket and their family couldn’t support.
if deep down you know this could be your reality or fate, make it your mission to break that cycle.
there should be days you need to go totally offline, switch off your phone, ignore distractions and focus completely on becoming better than you were yesterday. the consequences of being a young man without money or a strong support system can be brutal. that’s why, while you’re still coming up, treat your growth like a responsibility, not an option.
walk with me to learn
buena suerte as you do so 👍