My relationship with anyone is literally a mirror of how you treat me. I refuse to over play my part anymore. People take advantage of the good hearted.
DO NOT invite me to housewarming parties, weddings, baby showers, graduations, etc... if you don’t include me in cookouts, coffee breaks, movie dates, girls night or any other gatherings. it’s so offensive to think someone wants to dish out money on your life milestones without actually including them in your life progressions.
Life is like a boomerang. What you put out will come back and unfold right in your face. Most of the time it’ll come when you least expect it. Good or bad, it’ll make its way back to you.