Njeri

Life lover💞. Avid reader. Goofy☀
Live and let live❣️

[Njeri @_Njesh]

Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and will come forth later, in uglier ways.

Sigmund Freud

[Blaze Officiel @B3laze]

Anyways ukitaka ku succeed hapo corporate beba ka note book ata kama utachora penises tu, watu watadhani unawaskiza.

Then una rephrase their statements into questions 'so you said thika road is a road?'
People love being seen

[Nywele Ngumu @mariahsudi]

The things women from healthy families see in relationships in their 20s.. honestly they should opt for arranged marriages please .. you will be looking at them like “how did you not see that” they really believe seeing goodness in a person and second chances

[PS @dostoevesque]

A moving man will meet his luck. It is that simple.

You owe it to yourself to discover what lies ahead. You already understand your current reality. What you need now is to deliberately step into new environments and unfamiliar situations.

Even when you stumble, you are still moving forward. You can always continue from the exact point where you fell, without starting over from zero. With every effort, your knowledge grows and your experiences keep building on one another.

Life requires you to willingly subject yourself to uncomfortable situations. If you do not, you will gradually reach a bitter realization: the pain of stagnation and standing still is far worse than any risk, challenge, or obstacle you might encounter by pushing ahead.

As Lewis Carroll’s Red Queen says in Through the Looking-Glass:

"Now, here, you see, it takes all the running you can do, to keep in the same place. If you want to get somewhere else, you must run at least twice as fast as that!"

[Digi @digiii]

another substack gem

[soosoorandom @sluvity_____]

Women who intentionally created slower, softer lives. What did you remove first?

[Idris Akinlabi @eedris_akinlabi]

Corporate life will teach you that knowing the job is only half the battle.

The real skill is staying calm in meetings, reading the room, managing ego, receiving vague feedback, and not replying emails with your real thoughts.

[SokoAnalyst @SokoAnalyst]

In business, visibility is currency. You can have the best product, but if nobody knows you exist, the market will reward someone louder, faster and better positioned.

[Miss knyan @lizziemag56]

Can't believe Jesus died for Ruto too

[StripMallGuy @realEstateTrent]

I call it Spilled Milk Syndrome.

The people who suffer from it live difficult, stressful lives, no matter how well things may otherwise be going for them.

They freak out when their iPhone screen cracks. Their flight gets delayed an hour, and it makes them crazy.

Their uber driver cancels last minute, and they yell at their screen. Their printer runs out of paper when they’re running late and need that important document - and their heart races like crazy.

Their blood boils when their latte’s too hot. Or their new shoes get stained the first time they wear them. Or the babysitter’s running 10 minutes behind.

Life’s little annoying moments shock them every time. They are the spilled milk moments that fill all of our lives - and they’re routine no matter who you are or even how wealthy you may be.

The people who expect these moments and take them in stride have an incredible gift.

When a business deal falls apart, they try to save it - and they move on to the next when they realize they can’t.

When the baby starts crying again at 3am, they can choose to be frustrated and to feel sorry for themselves because they had a long day and need the sleep - or they can choose to not to let it get them down.

How you handle those countless moments is simply up to you.

They are going to keep happening no matter what - and you can choose to take them in stride, not let them set you back, and to look forward.

Or you can choose to waste much of your life angry and frustrated, “crying over spilled milk.”

It’s perhaps the most important life choice you can make.

[Coach Noah Revoy | Arms Dealer For The Soul 🏴‍☠️ @NoahRevoy]

I once had a woman tell me that you have to accept there is a trade-off. If you want a baby, want to be a mother, and want to raise children, there is a price to pay. That price is the discomfort of pregnancy, the pain of labor, and the strain that follows, especially in the early period with sleep deprivation and everything that comes with it.

She said you decide up front, “I am going to pay the cost,” and then you pay it willingly, without complaint, and with a free heart. When you do that, the suffering becomes far easier to bear.

She explained that if you frame it as persecution, as if something unfair is being done to you, you suffer twice. You suffer the event itself, and you suffer from the belief that you have been wronged.

I saw the same attitude in my own wife. Her mindset was, “I am a woman, of course I can handle this. This is what we are built for.” Even with unexpected complications in both pregnancies, that orientation made the entire process easier.

It was a far better approach than complaining, and it made things easier for everyone, not just her.

[Njeri @_Njesh]

😂😂😂😂

[Muad’Dib @Oom_nins]

One day I’ll take my colleagues to a boxing gym (under the guise of team building) and do what needs to be done.🙏🏾

[The Shift Journal @TheShiftJournal]

Just do things

[Aine Derrick @hotniqqha]

Babies medicines are flavored and sweetened because they think children want it that way

But no one thinks about us as adults. I want to bite into strawberry paracetamol, not that bitter thing they force me to take

[Praise @tufpraise]

The correct way to get rid of lower back pain👇

[gomi @parveen__tyagi]

She literally explained that the discomfort of discipline is nothing compared to the pain of regret.

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

“I want to look back at the end of this year and say “God knew exactly what He was doing. His plans are indeed greater than mine.”

[Simi @simikunleoni]

“do not suffer for longer than necessary”

my life changed when i read this.

[AFTER HOW MANY CHILDREN @tomisin_ms]

I can’t stress this enough.
Marry someone who has their finances in order. They don’t have to be rich, but they should at least be able to hold things down.
There will be moments when you’re vulnerable, like during pregnancy, when you may have to depend on them financially. That’s not the time to discover they can’t carry the weight. Don’t gamble your life.

[Rasna Warah @RasnaWarah]

I said it before, am saying it again, one day someone will look at Kenya and say, here lie the ruins of a country destroyed by greed.