OneAverageNegro

You Cant See Oxygen, But You Believe You Can Breathe! Success isnt an option.

[Greatness @Greatness_302]

@raphousetv2 Incase anyone wants to know why he wants the Jews to pay…

[Koncerto @GrandMasterKon]

I think it’s safe to say I’ve never seen the uncensored version wtf 😂

[positivity moon @arrtnem]

On paper it is gorgeous. Two toothbrushes in one cup. Tiny socks on the radiator. Someone whose face you know in the dark reaching for you at 3:12 and not leaving. A small person with your eyes and their laugh eating cereal too slowly before school. It sounds like the closest thing to safety we have ever invented.

But a lot of people did not grow up watching love look like that. They grew up watching marriage be a war that never declared itself out loud. 19:40 on a Tuesday, plates not quite slammed, voices just quiet enough for the neighbors not to hear. A father sleeping on the couch for three years. A mother doing the emotional admin for five people and getting a wilted bouquet once a year as a receipt. The child learns quickly that forever can be a threat as easily as it is a promise.

You say mini mes. A lot of people hear smaller witnesses. Witnesses to debt. To screaming in the car park. To one parent disappearing for six months and calling it adjusting. Some bodies carry the memory of being the kid who held the camera and took the Christmas photo where nobody spoke to each other for two days after. They do not crave that house. They crave never putting anyone through it.

There is another layer no one likes talking about because it sounds too practical for a sacred topic. Mortgage rates that bite. Groceries that feel like a test. Friends burning out in two jobs and still wondering if they can afford a dentist, не те що дитину. Bodies that already wake tired. The idea of bringing in a small, breakable person is not just cute to them. It is a spreadsheet with red numbers and a nervous system that shakes.

And then there are the ones who were never told they were allowed to want something for themselves first. To them, choosing no partner and no kids for now is not selfishness. It is the first act of self parenting. It is finally learning to feed the part of them that was always the one doing the caretaking. They are not missing the desire. Sometimes they are surgically removing the compulsion put in them by a culture that treated women as wombs and men as wallets.

Some people hear spouse and feel warmth. Others hear spouse and feel a hand closing over their life. Some people look at a child and feel their chest widen. Others look at their own sleep schedule, their own untreated trauma, their own rage in traffic and think not yet, not like this. That is not nihilism. That is responsibility. The bravest thing some people will ever do is break the chain by not adding another link.

Marriage and children can be the most beautiful thing. They can also be the most efficient way to hide from yourself. It is easy to call it forever if you have never sat with your own loneliness without a witness. It is easy to say mini me if you have not yet met the parts of you that should not be replicated without serious editing. Many people want to arrive to that altar and that nursery with less unprocessed violence in their hands. That takes time. That looks from the outside like drifting.

If you are lucky enough to want it and still be soft when you picture it, hold that gently. Do not turn your hunger into a ruler you hit others with. The world has given plenty of reasons to be afraid of binding contracts and tiny hearts. Climate, war, courts, childhood bedrooms where love was conditional on performance. Not everyone has healed enough to gamble a child on their hope.

Ask people what they want under all the noise. Some will say a partner and kids. Some will say a room, a dog, three good friends and work that feels honest. Some will say I do not know yet, I was never given space to ask. The distance is not as far as it looks. Everyone is hunting the same thing under different packaging. A place where their nervous system can stop scanning the door. A hand that stays. A tomorrow that is not a threat.

You can stand in your dream of spouse and children without needing the whole planet to agree.

[Wild content @Nocapmedia]

Bro 😭😭😭😭

[CE @4lilce]

if we dating .. i wanna be your second priority, i want your first priority to be you, your goals , your life & your future .. stay focused ! don’t let me be your distraction .. let me be your motivation , your support & your help to grow

[OneAverageNegro @_OhhSoWavy]

Type shit

[Chris @iamchriscorooo]

I hate arguing let’s talk things out and fuck after

[♛ℳeljin Buu @OGMelo_]

Bro I’m crine 😭😭😭

[jynx @jynxbby]

my momma didn't raise a fool. a psycho maybe, but no fool.

[Juanita Broaddrick @atensnut]

Estee @mommyrn88 does Kamala better than Kamala does Kamala. 😂😂😂😂

[OneAverageNegro @_OhhSoWavy]

On bro!

[M O N A E @badassmonae_]

i wanna relationship that i can still do my best in.. not a relationship where I feel I have to leave in order to focus on myself .. I wanna focus on myself right there with you and feel secure about it

[M O N A E @badassmonae_]

i wanna relationship that i can still do my best in.. not a relationship where I feel I have to leave in order to focus on myself .. I wanna focus on myself right there with you and feel secure about it

[𝔊𝔦𝔯𝔯𝔩 𝔓𝔩𝔲♱𝔬👩🏾‍🎤🪐 @eyerunLA]

you knw yo shit good when a nigga in you like this 😂

[Cornbread Mafioso 🖕🏾 @Soulful1865]

Real Love

[OneAverageNegro @_OhhSoWavy]

🤣🤣🤣nah fr

[MR$ DA$ANI🏳️‍🌈 @kaimooodz]

lol how true is this ??? 😂😂😂

[$tu. 💎 | Diamond Mag @_OgStu]

This edible def kicking in now

[The Figen @TheFigen_]

His dad built him an elevator, and he is very happy.

https://t.co/hrd3eoKqBg

[M O N A E @badassmonae_]

I never want to be in a relationship with someone that just tolerates me.. You need to be obsessed w/me in the most healthiest way to the point you can't even imagine a life without me

[SANAYE @itsniyahsanaye]

bae we go tg tell them hoes we go tg