i’m instantly turned off by a man that has very negative opinions about women even if it doesn’t apply to me. something very nasty and misogynistic about that spirit that never sat well with me.
I highly recommend being friends with ambitious people. Their drive pushes you to work hard for yourself, and they inspire you to do better and be better. Their good traits rub off on you; you start to want better for yourself and you grow.
It’s selfish to enter a person’s life, see that they are a good, genuine, and loving person and decide to wreak havoc in their life because you haven’t faced the demons of your own. Leave people alone if you have no intention of being genuine back.