After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years for hormonal balance, and up to five years to rediscover her identity. Relationships frequently fail during this time due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they are facing more challenges than it appears.
Termine com sua namorada e fique com ela. Depois você verá uma mais bonita que essa. Faça o mesmo! Viva esse ciclo incessantemente até perceber que na verdade você sempre está e estará sozinho.
This performative poverty olympics in the UK is so tiresome. A race to the bottom.
They do live in the real world. Their real world, where they are multi millionaires who can spend as much money they’ve made on whatever they choose.
These types of accounts are becoming embarrassing too btw.
I had a terrible roommate during my first year in school, it was worse than being in an abusive relationship and I hated her. I knew she hated me too, the feelings were very mutual.
Looking back now, years after leaving school, I wish I can see her and apologize to her. We were just two young adults experiencing school life for the first time, trying to find our feet and circle, both from two very different backgrounds.
Looking back, I realize there were days I was unnecessarily mean to her, there were days she was very helpful and sweet to me, I was also a terrible roommate sometimes.
I wish we gave ourselves more grace than we did.
I used to tell my girls, you should be more scared of brokeness than being unmarried
Just imagine being married and broke, in a difficult situation that money can solve… then add children into the equation then pregnancy, sickness and you unable to work.
The horror of it all.
6 months??? I take years because I feel things deeply😭my stress when a relationship ends is getting naked infront of a new person. That's why I take gap years because it's like, how many men am I going to sleep with when things keep on not working out bandla??😭If the next one ends I'm going to sleep with another new one? Yho hayi..
I’ve seen men walk away from 5–10 year relationships, then turn around and marry a woman they’ve known for 6 months suddenly doing all the things their ex begged for years. Word of advice, stop preaching to these men. They hear you. He’s just never going to become the man you want him to be because you’re not the woman he wants to be with. People don’t change for love in general, they change for who they truly want.
Last week, I went to GIG logistics Garki to send some books to a friend in Accra, when they gave me the price for shipping, I literally screamed. Books weighing 3.6kg for 170k naira? Say wetin happen?
Their excuse, they partner with DHL for shipping and every shipment first goes to their gateway in Brussels Belgium before being re-routed to the actual shipping destination.
So, the books I sent from Abuja to Accra had to go to Belgium first before getting to Accra.
Will never make sense to me, but this is the travesty of our Africa.
Same thing happens in trade. Our inter-continental transactions are first concluded outside the continent. Each time I and a fellow African from another country carries out a transaction, someone outside the continent gets a cut.
It needs to stop.
🚨Newsflash: If your religion has nothing better to do than bother other religions on their biggest holidays then you have a shtty religion.
How many times have you ever seen Christians, en masse, posting about how they don’t celebrate Ramadan or one of your other stupid rock worshipping holidays?
I will teach my boy how to respect women, thank you very much.
I will not leave that responsibility to a government that cannot even define what a woman is!