Celibacy is always the answer. Reprogram yourself and the way you view sex. Use that time to really know yourself & your body. Honor your temple. Avoid distractions. Wait until you meet someone who’s worthy of exploring your body in a sacred way, and focus on true intimacy first
Casual sex is a way to fill a void that only you or true intimacy can fill. Even if both people agree to want casual sex just bc they’re looking for pleasure, the need to feel that pleasure is also, subconsciously, a way to ignore an inner void that needs your love & attention