Why do you guys run with shit that will always cause a divide between us Islanders.
Majority of us Fijians support Tongans & Samoans when they do play & always will, unless it’s against Fiji.
Anyways Fiji women’s team for the World Cup win 🇫🇯💃🏽
Why should I be expected to forgive people who aren’t even sorry for what they did to me? Why should I be the bigger person when they feel no remorse, take no accountability and would probably do the same thing again if given the chance? I understand that forgiveness can bring peace, but I don’t believe it should be forced or used to make other people more comfortable with the pain they caused. Healing doesn’t mean pretending nothing happened and letting go doesn’t mean giving someone another chance to hurt you. Maybe one day I’ll reach a point where what they did no longer weighs on me. But that doesn’t mean I owe them access to my life, a reconciliation or the comfort of knowing I’ve forgiven them. I can choose peace without excusing what happened. I can move forward without pretending they deserve forgiveness.
A healthy person apologizes when they hurt you.
They take responsibility.
They try to understand the impact.
A narcissist does the opposite.
They blame you for feeling hurt.
They minimize.
They deflect.
That difference matters.
One response builds trust.
Sometimes I really wonder what it is about me that makes people struggle to love me right. I show up, I care, I try, I give grace. And somehow, I still end up feeling like I’m asking for too much.
Now they’re on TikTok live asking people for their rent money! $800 fucken dollars
Sad thing is people are actually sending them $$. They made over $100 in 20mins
dating an avoidant is insane because how the fuck does asking for basic love and effort become “putting pressure on them,” but expecting you to live with emotional neglect is somehow completely reasonable.