Ladies, believe me, men make time for who they want. They provide for who they want, spoil who they want, act right for who they want, communicate and reassure who they want. A real man won’t ever let his dream woman beg for anything, and if he does, he ain’t the one.
My ideal man is not a man that’s working himself to death to provide. One you never see cause he’s always on the clock or one that never has energy because his day was long. My ideal man is energized, healthy, working smarter, not harder and has time flexibility
So you caught this man in your daughter bed & punched him in the face… THEN you find out you’re pregnant & kept his baby🤔 fast forward He get you locked up and while in jail your 12yr old confess that he in fact HAS been touching her & NOW today you out of jail on live laughing and shit saying “you might save him” from what he did to your CHILD if he give you 10k?????? I genuinely question the company y’all keep. Shit like that don’t get looked past by me baby y’all hoes are insane! Fuck that Nigga! Go get some Misoprostol!
Let’s be clear a btch ain’t gone beef with you for no reason 😭 you either prettier, happier, getting more attention, or got a vibe she can’t copy 😂 that’s why they be lowkey obsessed watching everything you do like fans 💅🏾yet pretend they so “unbothered” 😅
I can’t wait to get married, make my husband a daddy then throw him big cookouts at our house & shower him with nice gifts. I got it all planned out lmfaooooo
I don’t tell my story because I don’t like sympathy! Just know I’m a walking testimony. You wouldn’t believe HALF the stuff I’ve been through because of the way I carry myself! I am Forever BLESSED! Literally protected by the grace of GOD! Always remember you never know what a person is going through, went through or came through!👏🏾
I’m such a stand my ground ass woman & I love that, I never tuck my tail or bow out in defeat, never doing anything for money, materials or to be chosen. Fuck ya, I’m out ya way.. I got me…
The problem is a lot of yall niggas did not grow up seeing your moms be pampered.. yall either saw y’all mommas working like dawgs, on drugs, with an abusive ass man or collective government assistance struggling to make ends meet.. a lot of y’all grew up with all half siblings and absent fathers, so you genuinely don’t know what the man’s role is supposed to be and that’s why a lot of yall can’t fathom giving a woman a soft life and being a provider bc you grew up believing women are supposed to be strong and take care of you! A lot of you niggas don’t even know to hold the door or walk on the outside of the sidewalk bc the only protector you ever had was a woman! Lmao
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you