I once asked my mom why she divorced my dad. She told me, “I was sick all week, and one morning your dad woke me up asking what I was making for breakfast. I told him I felt awful and needed sleep. He made breakfast for himself and never asked if I wanted anything.” It wasn’t the breakfast, she said. It was realizing that if she didn’t take care of herself, nobody would notice. That stayed with me. I realized people rarely leave because of one terrible moment. Sometimes they leave because of a thousand tiny moments that quietly convince them they’re alone.
4 hours. Today I get to see the woman I love walk towards me, surrounded by the people who helped make us who we are. I have a feeling that moment is going to finish me. ❤️
Before you go to bed tonight, remember this: Nothing kills you more than your own mind. Stop stressing over things you can’t control. Breathe. Let your mind rest. You’re going to be okay, I promise.
Everybody think a comeback gotta be a new car, more money, new house or popping out looking good. Sometimes the comeback is getting YOU back. Sleeping good again,Laughing again, Not overthinking every damn thing, Not checking on people who hurt you! Sitting by yourself & actually
I have a deep respect for people's privacy. I can be very close to someone for years and still not know everything about them, and I never feel the need to ask. And It's not like I don't care. I believe that if someone hasn't chosen to share something, it isn't my place to ask!!
My friend was broke for years, his girl funded his whole life. Clothes, booze, haircuts, CV money. She'd even borrow money to help him. Now that he has a job, he found his "love of his life" at his new workplace and wants to lobola in December. That other girl is suddenly "not his type". I'm not jealous, I'm just hurt for her. I saw all her efforts. 💔
Might sound like a shallow thing to say , but the friendship slaps harder when you all on a similar level of Finances.
I don’t mind carrying certain bills , but everytime ?? Come on now