Modern women: “I’m independent, I don’t need a man.”
Also modern women: “Why didn’t you plan the entire date, pay, and read my mind about wanting flowers?”
Current dating meta for guys:
Have a good job, stay in shape, be funny, lead the date, pay, be vulnerable but not too vulnerable, text first but not too much
make him worry about things, make him imagine a negative future, make him utilize costly brain energy to feel miserable, over and over again until he goes crazy