The reality is most aren’t trying to be anyone’s man tbh lol… they want the benefits of being in a relationship without having to commit or show up properly, that’s the dream for them
i just know im meant for a provider, protector & a gentleman. like, "Baby, i miss you." "Get ready,im picking you up." "Did you make it home?" "i just wanna see you happy."...that's the kind of soft love i want. The nonchalant ones can keep it.