Maybe it’s just me but I feel like a lot of things you definitely can do at the same time. You can be fly and be responsible, you can travel and still save, you can invest and still enjoy your life, it’s called BALANCE!!!
getting yo shit together requires a deep level of honesty wit yourself, you gotta be able to look at yourself in the mirror & be willing to accept flaws & behavior that's not allowing you to grow, self evaluation is difficult but it's extremely necessary💯✨