not dating to marry, not dating to separate, but a secret third thing (dating to enjoy being with a someone you're compatible with for as long as you both enjoy each other, no matter if that's months or years or the rest of your lives)
You can tell who is and who isn’t from NYC solely based on the way they party, and the era they partied in —ain’t no real New Yorker who came of age in the late 00’s waiting on no line longer than 15 minutes (and even that’s trying it)
ever since i started measuring my success by how deeply i slept, how often i laugh, how much beauty i notice,
how connected i feel to God, how frequently my heart feels at peace,
my life improved.
every time you say "this is new for me" instead of "i'm bad at this," you allow your brain space to learn instead of shut down. that's neuroplasticity in real time.
Apple is making it so hard for us to use our phones. Why do they have to change everything with every update? Like, it should not be this hard to close a tab
This is your reminder to just do it, “If you’re worried about the cost of going for it. You should see the price of staying exactly where you are”. Dream big, go for it, just do it.
I’ve not been able to create the video yet,
But here’s a quick breakdown of how to find real remote jobs on Reddit:
1. Stop using Reddit like Google. Use it like a marketplace because jobs live inside subreddits, and not the homepage.
2. Start with proven subreddits. Eg: r/forhire, r/jobbit, r/remotejobs, r/remotework, r/freelance, plus niche skill subs like r/webdev, r/UXDesign, r/digitalmarketing, etc
3. Search within each subreddit and sort by “New”. Most roles are filled within hours, not days.
4. Read posts carefully. Legit listings usually include scope, rate or budget, timeline, and a clear way to apply.
5. Follow instructions exactly. If they say “email,” don’t DM, and vice versa.
Reddit clients use this to filter applicants.
6. Always check the poster’s profile. Look at account age, post history, and karma. Brand-new, very low karma or empty accounts are red flags.
7. Keep applications short and direct. Say what you do, link proof (portfolio, GitHub, site, Drive), and answer the questions in the post.
8. Avoid long cover letters. Reddit prefers clarity over storytelling.
9. Comment and DM if allowed. Comments increase visibility, but DMs close the deal.
10. Turn on subreddit alerts or check once or twice daily. Speed matters more than volume.
11. Note that Reddit is best for: freelance work, contracts, startups, and short-term remote roles.
12. If you treat Reddit like LinkedIn, it won’t work. If you treat it like a marketplace, it does.
I’ll attach a video I had previously made on how to spot fake & legit job openings on Reddit in the comments section.
Kindly repost for more reach.
I wish you all the best.