All relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change
Just apologize when you know you messed up. All that manipulative behaviour and getting mad at someone for being upset with you when they have every right to be, is weird.
@Mubarak_mubious They stop being curious about you. Used to ask about your day, your plans, random thoughts… then suddenly it’s surface level only. They still talk, still laugh, but the genuine interest dries up.
A man will do what’s best for him every single time and not lose a minute of sleep about how it affected you. He’ll lie, move weird, disappear, double back and still be peaceful. Meanwhile you up stressing, replaying conversations, trying to figure out where you went wrong. Choose you like he choose himself
One thing I hate at this grown age is somebody who acts like cause & effect does not exist ! Yes your actions caused this outcome ! So why are you acting surprised & playing victim ?
Once i mentally separate myself from a situation you'll never get the same me. I'm somebody you gotta do right by the first time because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection. Especially because at my age its hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play
“Maybe something happened to him, that’s why he’s acting like this.”
But then I realized—so many things happened to me too. And I still chose to remain a decent human being.