Why I spoil myself as a black woman:
I thought I would get to an age & folks would just adorn me. Romantically. Platonically. Professionally. But that’s false. Everywhere I have to work. And defend myself. And fix things. And try to matter
So when I earn money? I repair myself.
I wonder if certain men know they’re not boyfriend/husband material.. I feel like I always hear about what’s not “wifeable” but do they know they aren’t husbandable? lol