I CANNOT fw people who do NOT understand it's the PRINCIPLE of things. it's not what you did but how you did it. and what makes it worse is knowing if roles were reversed, you'd lose your mind.
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
i saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really
black girls who have anxiety but are actually really chill about it. ya know? like im actually panicking on the inside but ion wanna ruin the vibe so ill just tweak out in my head and look cunt on the outside
my therapist told me yesterday: some people (especially family) will choose to remember and recognize only the version of you that they held the most power over, no matter how long it's been or how much you’ve changed.
Y’all try soo hard to be crashouts meanwhile I’m trying hard asf to stay calm and collected in every situation. The goal is to never have anybody be able to get me out of character.
Everybody is going through a lot, but so am I. I give grace and understanding, but I also need things too, and I have to stop forgetting myself trying to be compassionate to everyone else.