life is currently teaching me to be silent and accept what is. people will lie on you, twist the truth, blame you for their shortcomings, drag your name and believe things further from the truth even if your character has already been shown to be solid and you have to (1/2)
hardest thing for me to grasp as an adult is you have to keep showing up no matter how you feel. you gotta do this shit sad, do it heartbroken, do it grieving, do it tired. life doesn’t care, it waits for nobody, you just have to keep going.
a girl on tiktok said “detachment is crazy because you’ll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they’re okay. you just stop showing it” and that’s real shit.