Are you ACTUALLY extending grace or are you making excuses for an adult who has poor life decisions, lacks mutual respect for you, struggles with commmunication, and violates boundaries?
I'll never forget Michelle Obama saying we need to "plan our joy" in an interview with Oprah. I'm so intentional about planning dates with friends, self care appointments, fitness classes, and trips now. I always have something to look forward to. Keeps me excited about life.