@olabisiyemisi@AramideOyekunle That's not how I processed it, multiply by the sum both numbers.
5(5+5), 5(10) = 50
6(6+6), 6(12) =72
3(3+3) , 3(6) = 18
Many women are not Submissive or Humble; they are simply Broke.
The true test of a woman’s character is not how she treats a man when she needs his money. It is how she treats him when she finally has her own money and no longer needs him to survive. Wealth exposes the arrogance that Poverty was hiding.
I cut off a potential life partner because she couldn't control her intake of carbonated drinks.
I suggested sweet natural alternatives help with the cravings but it didn't work. She started having knee problems and eventually we got no sleep as the pains were crazy at night.
My dad had constantly warned my mum to stay off soft drinks when we were younger cause she was diabetic..
So my mum started this thing where she’d sneak in the soft drink to avoid talk.
One night, she sent me to buy sprite, asked me to turn the sprite into a bottle water container and bring it for her so my dad won’t notice..
I was angry, cause WHY..
Mumu me saw my dad in the kitchen as I was returning and snitched 🙂↔️🙂↔️
Man was pissed and expressed displeasure, stepped out the house.
When my mum learnt my dad was no longer at home, the beating I received…
I was literally bleeding😭😭😭
I learnt my lesson and kept shut henceforth..
The irony, when the consequences for her indiscipline manifested, I held so much resentment towards her and I didn’t hide it, reminded her each time I got the opportunity 😪
My life was literally on pause for 3 years dealing with her health, later stage into her health deteriorating, I let go of the resentment and it helped me look after her in a way I should have without being angry.
Hypergamy is conversely as dangerous as the Odogwu mentality. I'll explain.
Men who believe they have to do all the giving and loving in a relationship to get and keep a woman, do not do it out of love but out of ego. To maintain this status quo, they believe and actually want to be always ahead of the woman regardless of what the future holds because her success or earning capacity is a threat to his masculinity and the relationship. Thus, a job or opportunity that elevates the woman has to be turned down to protect both parties image and interest.
The woman on the other hand who kowtows to hypergamy and believe a man has to do all the spending and loving, if she begins to make more money, would naturally begin to resent you because she is now in your position as the financial muscle. This means you've become irrelevant and incapable, but because her hypergamous mentality still exists, she would not be more responsible. Instead, she would start looking for even more successful men to take up your spot. The odogwu man and the hypergamous woman are two peas in a pod but dangerous to each other.
Run from any man who believes he has to always be financially ahead. He will stifle your progress for his ego. Run from any woman who believes you always have to be financially ahead. She will resent you if she ever gets to earn more.
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To love is to give love and to receive love. Both parties must have family values and see every income as family income. It is only then that who earns more would be irrelevant. After all, you do not have a life outside that marriage. It is a life journey. You'll either learn the easy way or the hard way.