They don't want people to figure out that if they just get off their arse they can fix their own community in 2 weeks. They want you to keep paying them taxes so they can fix your community for you. In 3 years. Maybe. Probably not.
Dating is optional for me.
My bills are paid. My space is calm. My bed is big. Peace already exists in my life.
So if you enter it, you are not competing with another man.. You are competing with the life I have already built for myself.
📌🥰I really do believe when you have a special relationship with God, He creates a shield of protection. Like, some people really don't see you. You think you're being ignored, whole time God is just hiding you & preparing you for something better!
1. I eat very, very fast. I don’t understand why people spend more than 5 minutes eating. Back in the day, they used to count for us to eat.
2. I wake up very early every day. Whether my alarm rings or not, I don’t sleep past 6 a.m. max.
3. I bathe very fast. I don’t waste time in the bathroom no matter how much I try. I was raised with a sense of urgency.
4. I can easily adapt and adjust to whatever situation I find myself in. Survival has always been a constant in my life.
5. I don’t know how to miss people. I can go months without talking to anybody, including my family, and I won’t feel it, even though I always think about them.
6. I’m an introvert.
7. I have trust issues. I believe everyone is lying to me until proven otherwise.
8. I’m very cautious and observant of my environment. Anywhere there’s noise or a crowd, I leave immediately. I believe trouble is coming there.
9. I can sleep through almost any kind of noise. There’s no place too uncomfortable for me to sleep.
10. I can co-exist with people in the same space while minding my business.
Especially women. We can wake up one day & all our rights will be taken away on a whim but never for men. The Afghan women went to bed one night & woke up the next day as slaves in their own homes & it haunts me everyday.
I don’t stay mad at people for long. I might distance myself and never really speak to you again, but I’m not sitting around holding anger like that.
Once I make my peace with something, I just move on quietly. No hard feelings, just distance.
@letterztoafrica The world didn’t want Europeans colonising it but it happened anyway. Little did we know that demographic transition was going to cook up some karma of some sort. Africans to the world !!! But we must develop our countries first.