I dated her in my final year.
The truth is, life happened. You know that expectation that once you are done with NYSC, life must automatically take an upturn for the better? I had that expectation too.
She believed in me. She believed in the plans, the dreams, the things I told her we would achieve together.
Until the bills started piling up.
I was still holding on to the same dream. I kept telling myself that things would eventually work out. I had promised her a better life, and I genuinely believed I would make it.
But somewhere along the line, she stopped believing in the dream.
She became more demanding. Not because she was necessarily wicked, but because her own reality was changing too.
The phrase “everything will be fine” that used to comfort her suddenly meant nothing.
The truth is that sometimes, two people can love each other and still reach a point where one person can no longer afford to wait for the future the other person keeps promising.
Be Mindful.
Things have happened to me that I never thought would happen. I have also done things that I swore I will never do. That's why I will never judge anyone for their choices or their mistakes. Life has no manual. We are all doing the best we can, and learning a lot along the way.
Hungry yet?
This buffet is pure temptation steaming jollof rice, juicy peppered chicken, golden fried plantains, fresh shrimp fried rice, rich stews, and more.
One look and your stomach will start talking. Who’s claiming a plate first? 🔥🍛
My friend has been married for 4 years without a child. Both are young and beautiful, both under 28.
Last year his wife finally conceived.
She had one request. A push gift. She wanted her own car.
She delivered via CS last month. It was a long, tense delivery and he spent a fortune.
Three days later, she asked for the car. He told her he could not afford it right now.
She said she would not feed the baby until he bought it. Right there in the hospital. The nurses had to beg her.
At home, things got worse. He would return from work to find the baby crying alone. She stopped breastfeeding unless he begged. She withheld care like a weapon.
Then she disappeared for 2 days. He found out she was at her mother's place. The baby was seriously ill. He went to beg her to come back.
She refused until he agreed to buy the car.
She came back.
A few days later, they lost the baby girl. She never recovered from the illness.
He sent her out immediately. She came back with her mother to beg.
He arrested both of them.
Above all, love God.
My community elected a new leader last Saturday. During the screening process, one prominent man in our community was disqualified. He became furious because he had spent a lot of money campaigning.
The community elders said he was not qualified because he was not living with his wife. He had chased her away because she did not give birth to a male child.
The man tried to bribe a few of the elders, but those who stood against him had stronger voices in the community.
He got angry and said he would disconnect all the streetlights he had installed during his campaign.
They told him they would help him disconnect everything.
I dated her in my final year.
The truth is, life happened. You know that expectation that once you are done with NYSC, life must automatically take an upturn for the better? I had that expectation too.
She believed in me. She believed in the plans, the dreams, the things I told her we would achieve together.
Until the bills started piling up.
I was still holding on to the same dream. I kept telling myself that things would eventually work out. I had promised her a better life, and I genuinely believed I would make it.
But somewhere along the line, she stopped believing in the dream.
She became more demanding. Not because she was necessarily wicked, but because her own reality was changing too.
The phrase “everything will be fine” that used to comfort her suddenly meant nothing.
The truth is that sometimes, two people can love each other and still reach a point where one person can no longer afford to wait for the future the other person keeps promising.
Be Mindful.
You mean people still do dry fasting in this country?😳
Even 6 A.M to 6pm I no fit do, I can't fast for long hours, if the problem that will push me to fast for long hours go kpaii me make e kpaii me, I can't Skip food for hours, make hunger no kpaii me before the main problem.
Special respect to those who still Earnestly fast. I salute una.
That's true.
My friend, 35, nearly ran mad when he discovered that the new 23-year-old girl he was dealing with had been married for about six months.
The painful part was not even that she was married.
It was that another man had been sleeping peacefully, thinking his wife was at home behaving herself, while my friend was unknowingly entering another man's marriage.
My friend immediately started apologizing to the man in his head. 😂
Men have a strange kind of respect for other men.
You can do plenty of things, but once you discover that another man's wife is involved, the whole thing suddenly becomes very serious.
Be Mindful.
As far as marriage is concerned, married men are the highest cheats because single women do not mind cheating with them.
Married women are lesser cheats because both single & married men would rather not deal with them.
As long as both of them are honest with their status.
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As far as marriage is concerned, married men are the highest cheats because single women do not mind cheating with them.
Married women are lesser cheats because both single & married men would rather not deal with them.
As long as both of them are honest with their status.
End