unfortunately, i don’t like nonchalant men. be present, check on me, be affectionate. tell me i’m gorgeous, plan the dates, bring the flowers, act like you actually want me in your life. Be absolutely obsessed with me
Nobody talks about how waiting on God is hard. Somedays you have it altogether and some days you burst into tears wondering how long this season would take
the best thing a therapist ever told me is “you’re not lazy, you only have a certain amount of energy and right now you’re using it all to survive” and i know someone else needs to hear that too
I love seeing ppl who haven’t had the best relationships finally find their person. It’s like watching someone who’s been carrying around a heavy weight for years finally put it down.
i love when men are men. thank you for being protective, opening my doors, reassuring me, letting me yap, holding my hand, reminding me the light you see in me, providing, making plans, driving. thank you for being gentle & thank you for not complaining about any of that.