Helai

[Dear Self. @Dearme2_]

BREAKING NEWS: Neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr downplay your accomplishments. A job is a job. A car is a car. A house is a house. Be proud of yourself and what you have achieved no matter what. You have to build brick by brick.

[radel @radellaah]

THISSSSS

[Helai @__Helai]

Me, myself and I and my mom

[Tori_ @Toribabieegirl]

If money wasn't a problem tomorrow, who's the first person you'd spoil? ❤️

[goma @soigomaa]

When I say "not all men" I mean this one lizard, specifically

[Helai @__Helai]

@sfnzmi You will get the napkins and a gift.

[Helai @__Helai]

Personalized napkins made by yours truly. Who’s getting married next?

[Helai @__Helai]

@sfnzmi Don’t forget to invite me

[Helai @__Helai]

I feel so loved right now

[Wholesome Side of 𝕏 @itsme_urstruly]

It’s a sign of great respect in toddler culture if they draw a picture for you.

[Helai @__Helai]

Afghan dads are so mean

[Helai @__Helai]

Now I need a cup of good coffee

[Helai @__Helai]

So my Amma made me some shorwa bc I’m het favorite niece

[Helai @__Helai]

I’m so hungryyyyy

[Helai @__Helai]

Go Morroco 🇲🇦 go!!

[𝐌𝐚𝐥𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐦 @Malcolm_Pal9]

She has more integrity than most world leaders.

[Helai @__Helai]

Men should be banned from doing attan. Just leave it to the girls and their gorgeous Afghan dresses and the twirls 🫣

[Helai @__Helai]

Korte samenvatting aub

[Amir D @starks_arq]

This picture means something to an entire generation of Dutch people.

I'm one of them.

My parents came to Holland as Moroccan immigrants.
I was born there.

Dutch passport.
Dutch better than my Arabic.
The first 18 years of my life, Holland fed me, schooled me, raised me.

The Moroccans helped rebuild Holland.
Holland gave them roads, schools, a future in return.

Fair trade.

But we never really integrated.

That's not on one side.
That's on everyone.

We learned to speak for our grandparents, because they never got to learn the language.
We brought our food.
We brought our culture. Mosques. Books and humor.

We had fun.
We hung out.
We went to each other's weddings and loved the mix of it.

And still.
We never really became one.

The politicians made sure to categorize us.
They needed us to be outsiders, while we were busy acting like insiders.

So a wall went up between neighbors.

Then yesterday a silly game with a ball put two teams on the same grass.
Two continents.
Two cultures.

Except they're not two teams.

They're teams stitched together by the same life.

The Dutch know the Moroccans. Intimately.
The Moroccans know the Dutch. Intimately.

The Moroccans in Morocco spend every summer selling to the Moroccans from Holland.

The Dutch spend every day next to Moroccans. In School. At The local butcher. The streets.

The Moroccan team is full of Moroccans carrying Dutch passports.

The Dutch team is full of their actual friends, neighbors, and colleagues.

Such a simple game.
Such a complicated story.

When I look at this image I don't see football.

I see high school.
I see pride.
I see distance.
I don't see compassion.
I see resentment.

And that's exactly how we lived in beautiful Holland.

Together. Happily.
And quietly, unconsciously, apart.

I left when I was 18.
I went back to Morocco.

I resented Holland.
For years it was me vs them.

Now I understand what I actually have.

I can read two cultures from the inside.

And I get to choose.
What I carry with me.
What I leave behind.

Because every culture has its gold.
And every culture has its rot.

The trick is knowing which is which.

Love. Be kind to each other.

[Helai @__Helai]

Be like Yasir

[Katy  @Maroup_]

"My wife is waiting for me at home, at the home I built for us and our 4 kids. I don't mean to be rude but I've got no use for your phone number."

The smile on my face after hearing that? Priceless. Even the woman smiled, respected his response, and walked away.

To Yasir’s wife: you chose well. 🧢