My man hates heights and seafood but he’s rode rollercoasters, went on zip lines, and tried seafood boils with me. When I ask him why EVERY TIME he says “because I know you want me to”. Moral of the story, find someone that is (1/2)
I think there's a point in your healing journey where you stop trying to convince other people to do the right thing, you just observe their choices, understand their character, and decide what you're going to allow in your life.