one thing i had to learn the hard way… you can spend so much time understanding everyone else’s perspective that you completely abandon your own experience. having empathy without boundaries will have you extending grace to everyone except yourself.
I'm at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, and add peace to my life.
i hate how physical touch as a love language gets reduced to sex and kissing when it's more like... handholding, laying your head on their shoulder, putting your legs over their lap, tracing their palm, tucking your feet under their thighs. just touching for touching's sake.
I’m realizing more & more ppl have a problem with others’ free will, even if it cause no harm to their lives. We’re seeing a major decline in ppl minding their fucking business.
Get yourself a partner who isn't afraid to set boundaries and make it clear where their loyalty lies. Someone who will choose your relationship over outside opinions, protect your peace, and stand up for you even when it's uncomfortable. That's the kind of love that makes you feel secure.
Unpopular opinion but I lowkey hate when people don’t stop their dogs from coming up to me. Respectfully, I don’t wanna know their name, and I’m not gonna ask to pet them. Come get your dog!