people lack accountability, then be like “you could've just talked to me”. no, i couldn't. you don't listen. you deflect. you gaslight. you make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. so no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because i didn't want to fix.
A cheating man is bad enough.
But you know what’s even worse?
A man who pretends to be good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim.
As harsh as this is..it’s right. Trauma bonding with anyone comes from a place of lack. If you’re struggling it’s bc your life isn’t full enough. Go out, start a business, build on a hobby. Anything. A lot of ppl aren’t even heartbroken, they’re just understimulated.
ngl, the constant cycle of forcing yourself to match the energy of someone who is nonchalant knowing you are someone who is naturally sweet and kind is MENTALLY DRAINING. you can literally lose yourself to the point where you don’t even recognise yourself anymore.