Despite everything we face, I wouldn’t choose to be anything other than Black. If I had to do it all over again…I’d still come back with this same soul, this same spirit, this same Black identity…every single time.
You can't breadcrumb a woman who feeds herself. She has hobbies, she has her career, she has options. If you disappear, she doesn’t spiral. SHE REORGANIZES
Dating is optional. My bill are paid. My house is calm. My bed is big. You’re not competing with another man, you’re competing with how comfortable I am alone.