A narcissists mindset. That didn't happen, and if it did, it wasn't that bad, and if it was, it's not a big deal, and if it is, it's not my fault, and if it was, I didn't mean it, and if I did, you made me do it.
In a relationship u gotta think about things with a “vice versa” mentality.. u can't just do what u want, u always gotta think about how it will affect ur partner