If your parents hit you as a kid, the most important thing you can do is forgive them and break the chain with your own kids. This is actually much easier than it seems since you can simply choose to do things. But it involves recognizing that the initial physical violation pales in comparison to the deeper psychic betrayal, which is the realization that your authority figures are weak, indulgent, out of control and therefore unfit to govern you. Not they betrayed you, but they betrayed themselves. In principle, this is a good realization to have and most basically intelligent people come to it at one point or another. The problem with having it forced on you at a young age is that it creates a permanent distance between you and your emotions. In other words, you can understand and even accept them, but you will never fully believe them. They will forever seem fake and gay. This makes it hard to be vulnerable or uninhibited, which are prerequisites of all love bonds. Immigrant parents, even the smart ones, don’t seem to realize that initiating their kids into reality while they’re still dependents is not wise but lazy and retarded.
Hitting your kids is in the same category as circumcision, iPads, strict adherence to the CDC vaccine schedule---it is for Ns, goyim, and walmart pajama people. It lowers IQ (Straus, 1995), increases aggression (Gershoff, 2016), is less effective than a timeout, and requires escalation to keep working. The replies to articles like this are filled up with the Dumbest People Who Ever Existed saying "it worked for me" and then genuinely malicious and hateful morons dropping reaction gifs of like daffy duck swinging a belt
"EVERY STATE IN AMERICA ALLOWS YOU TO PHYSICALLY CORRECT YOUR CHILD. It's legal. It's fun. Bring it on." -- profile says: Cat Sanctuary Dad. Unyielding steel. Workouts, keto, cat chaos, anime rants. Godzilla, Gundam, Mazinger, Ultraman, classical art, manga.
If you hit your kids, you will create permanent emotional distance with the only person/people you could ever be that close to, not to mention sending them down the road of being as much of a lost fuckup loser as you are who will hit their own kids, or wont, but only after spending a decade figuring out why they reflexively apologize all the time.
@SubwayTakes@arooj_aftab BedStuy is named after a White place and a White person. It was built by Whites. Whites will do whatever they damn please in BedStuy, you disgusting brown stain.
YouTubers be like “wake up at 4am and run, that’s alpha!” No, it’s not. Look at apex predators; they’re all lazy. Bears hibernate, lions sleep all day. You know who wakes up at 4am and runs? Squirrels.
The Anglo-Saxons have been in Britain for about twice as long as the Maori have been in New Zealand.
It makes you wonder why the Maori are called "indigenous" to New Zealand while Britain is called a "nation of immigrants".