this also requires honest introspection because it’s not all cases where the response is unwarranted. it’s only when no movement from my end can drive you to find faults in me, unnecessarily. so it’s merely a mirror of their character.
it’s important to not internalise the actions of others because so many people are projecting their insecurities, inadequacies, fears, uncertainties, lived experiences and anxieties onto us. if my actions don’t warrant their response then it’s not about me, it’s them.