aespa's Giselle when asked to give an advice to a gay person who's not out yet:
"I would say follow your intuition, don't force anything. Don't ever hate yourself or feel wrong, cause we love any kind of sexuality, you're not wrong, and very loved."
Btw, asexual people AND aromantic people are BOTH queer. And no, asexual and aromantic are not the same thing and are not always paired up in a person.