if you want to do โ6 months locked inโ. iโd suggest you start with 1 hour. one book. 50 pages. each day, fighting your urge to touch the phone. and gradually, youโll see your attention span coming back home to you, and by the end of the year you will have lived your best life.
Facing your own mess is heavy. Coming to terms with the choices YOU made, the times YOU didnโt protect yourself, the moments you crossed your own boundaries. That point where you realize everybody canโt take the blame and you had a hand in what fell apart too. Sitting with that truth hurts, but learning how to forgive yourself hurts even more. Growth doesnโt move in a straight line. Days like this are part of it. Feel it, acknowledge it, but donโt get stuck living there.
A girl on tiktok said "detachment is crazy because you'll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they're okay. you just stop showing it" and that's real life.
I want my man to be able to enjoy his life and still be faithful. Go out and have fun with your friends. Just respect me in my absence. That's all I ask.
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