For those choosing to break generational cycles, your parents couldn’t do it. Their parents couldn’t do it. But for some reason you noticed the pattern, and decided it ends with you. You’re the blueprint. It's time to realize your worth, and step into your power.
I believe a good woman will always win in the end. She'll get her love & her apology. She'll get her ring & her husband. She'll get her bag & her happiness. A good woman w/ a good heart will always have the last say. And a smart man is smart enough to keep a good woman in his life🫶
Increasing your tolerance for discomfort is how you master yourself. The difficult conversations. The uncomfortable silence. The adversity. This is where you grow the most.
Never force relationships or communication. If it's not mutual, then let it go. People know exactly what they're doing. If they wanted to match your energy, they would. Start rewarding inconsistency with unavailability. Allow them to lose you because of their lack of effort.
Trying to get through to a narcissist by explaining your feelings and telling them all the things that hurt you will only further enable them to break you down until you crumble. They have no intention of changing or improving, and will only exploit the vulnerabilities you share.