I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
Hardest pill to swallow is realizing people DO NOT CARE. They’ll hurt you & really go on about their lives. Not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships, or family.
A lot of men are not being ‘disrespected’ in their relationship, they are just being accurately confronted for the first time in their life.
If every time she names a pattern you hear it as an attack, you will keep turning ordinary feedback into destructive arguments. It is easier to label her as ‘disrespectful’ than is it to admit you have never learned how to be in a relationship where your comfort is not the main priority.
im FOREVERRRRRRRR praying that i get my fairytale ending.. the dream career. the financial freedom. the friends. the family. the peace. the love... just everything tht i truly & genuinely deserve
I saw a TikTok of a man that said:
"If my wife can't help but overthink, then I'm going to over-explain everything, I have no problem with helping her mind feel at peace"
Don't settle for less.
You are God's girl. Not desperate. Not forgotten. Not behind. Covered. Chosen. Backed by heaven. Which means you don't chase, beg, or audition for what's already assigned to you. What's not aligned gets removed without apology. What's meant for you won't require confusion, anxiety, or self-abandonment. God is not building you just to hand you crumbs. Stand tall. Move different. You're not fighting for survival anymore, you're walking in authority.
A woman working 40+ hours a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, and gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. And no, she can’t bring you peace when she’s in survival mode.
She married a caring man no doubt but you have to understand that ignoring someone’s need makes them feel unloved no matter what you’re doing in the name of love.
You can’t dictate how you want your partner to be loved, effort doesn’t always mean impact. He stayed with her, cared for her, yes but did he love her the way she wanted to be loved? No. Will she appreciate what he did, yes but will she feel loved, no
Someone’s Love language is about how they give and receive love, if you want to love them right, learn how they receive love and try to meet them there, you can’t force your type of love down their throat
i think one of the most special things growing up as a girl is when ur young and you learn with your mom how to dress up and everything,but when you grow up she starts to ask for your help and you pick her clothes sometimes or help her with her makeup. it’s such a beautiful thing