my life and choices are not for my family or friends to understand or approve of. they are my own. they are for me. i write the manual for my life, as you did for yours.
i’m scared of the change happening in my life right now but i have this overwhelming sense of calm and a feeling that no matter what decision i make, everything (and i mean everything) is going to be okay.
havin a relationship w your significant other family is important to me 😭 idc what y’all say . I wanna go to all the family events etc n feel like family frfr
In a healthy relationship, your partner hears you out when you’re upset; their goal is to avoid upsetting you in the future, not to debate w you whether you should have been upset in the first place