biggest thing i’ve learned is rekindling is pointless when the damage is already done. once somebody has wronged you and you try to give benefit of the doubt and be on cordial terms again something just won’t feel right. you gotta let people stand on their wrongs and move around.
Adult friendships are hard. Everyone’s busy & life happens. But you gotta let people know when you’re thinking about them. A simple “thinking of you, hope all is well” really goes a long way.
I was feeling sad for how someone treated me, but then I remembered I treat people well, I am thoughtful, that’s a reflection of me. How people treat me is not mirror of my worth or what I deserve.
May I keep remembering that.