Breakups are ok. Losing friends is ok. Moving on is ok. Healing is ok. Saying no is ok. Being alone is ok. What is NOT ok is staying somewhere where u don't feel happy, valued, loved or appreciated.
people have an unhealthy attachment to attachment. let people go. let people leave. meet new people. make new memories. share new bonds. you have not meet all of the people who will love you.
girl to girl, please PICK the GENTLE ONE. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence. the one who sees your heart without judgment. the one who holds your dreams with care. 🫶🏽
People playing a victim in situations they caused is getting so old and tired. Accountability is so much easier than keeping up this narrative and façade. Isn’t it tiring pretending to be mad knowing you secretly have no right to be?