I’m strict about my boundaries because every time I wasn’t, I paid the price. I let the wrong people get too close, I gave too many chances, and I ignored what I already knew. All it ever did was drain me. That’s a lesson I refuse to learn again.
I saw someone say the art of conversation is so lost that people have started mistaking it for love and that’s sooo real. I be having good conversations with men they often think it’s me flirting and I genuinely be confused like have you never just had a deep platonic convo??
best dating advice i’ve gotten was: the signs you ignore in the beginning just end up being the reason you leave later. you know right away who’s good and who’s bad for you, don’t ignore that.