The problem with this take is that it frames a pattern as a personal failure.
When one woman dates someone who can’t cook or clean, sure, that’s her choice, but when thousands of women across different countries, cultures, and backgrounds are reporting the same experience? It becomes a pattern. You don’t get to say “crime is just poor personal choices” when the data shows it clusters around poverty.
Also notice what he didn’t say, he didn’t say “men should learn to cook and clean.” He didn’t say “we should raise boys better.” His entire energy went toward blaming women for noticing the problem, not toward solving it. That tells you everything about what this post is actually about.
This is exactly why women platforming ‘good men’ backfires because some of them take that support and use it to turn around and talk down on women.
Nobody was complaining about their personal boyfriend, the conversation was about the fact that so many men were never taught how to cook, clean, or take care of a home and that’s not one woman’s bad choice, that’s something that keeps happening everywhere, to too many women, for it to just be a coincidence.
When your first response to that is ‘well women chose those men’ instead of ‘why aren’t boys being raised better’, you’re not trying to fix anything, you just want to make sure women get the blame.
Mtchewww.
these are the type of privileges i randomly remember i have and then i burst into tears because we’ve have really come such a long way. forever grateful to all the women who shaped this path for me.
You lot are weirdos, ewww
Do you know how much Raenest, Cleva, accrue have invested in Nigerian talents, making sure they are earning well.
In fact I still get monthly rewards from them even without receiving money through them sometimes.
PayPal took people's money in Africa and ran away. Our people stepped up and built a solution.
If you use PayPal you might just love your colonizers..
The only person this app collectively chased away for terrible behavior & abuse was the babe who broke Oduduwa’s neck. One woman.
The others (men) the wife beater, the rapists, Austa’s killer, the one who abused a minor alongside his wife, the rape apologist, and several other violent, degenerate men are still on this damn app.
Na only woman una dey ostracize. A man, no matter the gravity of his crime and degeneracy, is always redeemable.
Men get unlimited redemption arcs, women get collective punishment, permanent ostracization & public execution.
This is the misogyny y’all swear does not exist.
They don’t care about the victims.
It’s just a gotcha moment for the people they don’t like and agree with.
These same people that will believe and make excuses for a stranger they don’t know than a woman with receipts.
Nothing else beyond all the posturing.
@BigBadReni Like I said earlier. Not very Christian of her. Like even if you don’t like these people, what is this glee about their “downfall,” especially when the situation is so so bad and may involve real life victims?? Like this simply cannot be your focus in your Christian heart.
If a feminist posted "men are often hostile to their partners and when women cease to be an object of desire they become an object of disgust" the comments would be filled with accusations of misandry or "demonizing male sexuality" or making young men fascists or whatever
Think about this tweet before you vouch for that your friend that was accused of rape or sexual assault.
You don’t know people as well as you think, believe me.