when i cut somebody off, my life doesn’t suddenly fall apart. that’s the difference. i don’t keep people around because i’m scared of needing to start over. i’m solid all by myself, so access to me is a privilege not a necessity.
When someone disrespects u in a way that’s makes u realize how negatively they’ve always viewed you that shit is so easy. I run a strict ass dictatorship here I can’t abandon myself like that anymore for the sake of having a friend