Hello,
My name is Taiwo Ayuba, I sell mobile phones (accessories, earphones & airpods, speakers) , laptops, TVs and Play Station consoles . I specialize in affordable gadgets, designs, durable & guaranteed.
Location: OSOGBO, Nationwide delivery.
72hrs water fast.. Once every 2 weeks.
He makes sure to replace his regular water with mineral water.
Carry on with his normal gym routine.. Don't do too much.
Do minimal carb and more proteins. Intermittently fast. Zero breakfast, Heavy lunch, very minimal dinner before 6pm.
You go shock if you see him in 3 months..
Annoying thing is they’d start with calculations on the spot at least wait until later at night or after the trip before you start asking for money. Dem fo just dey kill vibes.
Mine was a UK resident as well. I was looking for a travel buddy and someone linked us up. Destination was Turkey and this was almost a decade ago when travel was still affordable.
I left her and followed 2 Moroccan girls that didn’t speak English for my peace of mind please.
@lovyPrimzy1@OluwoleAdetutu Last week was an eye opener. I try to play the American music at my workplace just to carry everyone along. Tell me why an Ethiopia is playing more Nigerian music than me the following day. I felt stupid to some extent
Please, I need your help. If you came to Canada as a PR, between 0 to 5 years. Please, how long did it take you to get a job? Is the job in alignment of what you were doing back home?
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Does she do this in multiple settings or just at home? What types of items are being stolen? Has she experienced any losses or tragedies recently?
At that age, the drivers of stealing and lying may include:
1) Poor impulse control (their brain is still developing)
2) Wanting something immediately and not thinking ahead
3) Testing boundaries
4) Seeking attention or control
5) Anxiety, insecurity, or copying behaviour
6) An underlying behavioural disorder that makes empathy difficult
Sometimes, a child can fixate on certain things as a security blanket and becomes emotionally attached. Other times, it's because they haven't developed the skill of delayed gratification and talking about their thoughts and feelings.
The solution will depend on what is driving the behaviour.
As a mum, you can reinforce standards such as, "In this family, we always tell the truth" and "We always respect what belongs to others." Get down to eye level and tell her this firmly (but not shouting) before you make her return the stolen item, apologise to the person who owned the item, and apply the consistent consequence of making her lose an item of value to her for one week whenever she takes an item from someone else. Do this without harshness, just tell her the consequence and apply it even if she throws a tantrum. Be consistent and don't lose your cool. She feeds off your energy. Calmness in discipline and regulating your own emotions are crucial. But she must have a consequence that is serious. Remind her that when she steals from others, they also feel the loss she is feeling. She needs to understand how others feel due to her behaviour.
Then teach her how to talk to you about what she wants, and tell her that sometimes you too want things but cant have them immediately, yet strong people are patient and the best thing you have is her. Tell her this frequently, not only when she does wrong, and embrace her so that she builds emotional security with you. When you notice her talking openly, compliment her for sharing her feelings or desires. Give her more attention when she engages in positive behaviour.
You can also engage her in regular exercises to build delayed gratification - like sitting down in front of a desirable object without taking it (while left alone in a room) - for 1 min, 3 mins, then 5 mins, then gradually increasing up to 15 mins. You can teach self-diversion techniques to use when she is feeling tempted, like singing or reciting some rhymes, counting her fingers, praying, or closing her eyes and remembering something nice.
If she persists in stealing and lying in spite of a few months of these strategies, she may require further assessment.
Using a cane won't stop her. She will eventually stop feeling the pain of the beating, get more crafty and hide her bad behaviours from you. A lot of those who got beaten throughout their childhood are still lured by 419 and, if they could get rich without being caught, they would steal in a heartbeat.
Building good character and life skills takes time and persistence. Don't give up. Mothering comes with many trials. Every mother faces something difficult or shocking when it comes to her kids, but believe in her goodness and understand that your role is to role model, teach and train her with strong values and endurance. She will respect you all the more for it when she is older.
Woke up this morning thinking about the quality of life I’m living in this country, literally all my life I’ve been conditioned to live this way, this isn’t the life meant for me as Nigerian.
In the last 48 hrs I’ve not had light for close to 2hrs, dawg this isn’t life… me and my flatmates been burning money on fuel, it’s crazy, can’t cook cos there’s no light to even store the food.
I have been house hunting since September and all I have been seeing is stupid houses with ridiculous prices, no way I’m going to be paying millions of naira on bare minimum apartments.
Jesus Christ, one of my friends wey japa go UK for January him qualify of life don change, you don’t even need to tell me I can see it from his IG stories, I’m here shirtless while typing this stupid tweet blowing myself with my shirt cos heat wan kill me.
Today I’ll go to work and come back and meet no light still and think of buying fuel for another 900 naira per liter, do you know how insane that is, my dad already had me at this age and already building his own house.
Fuck Nigeria mehn, I’m not the type to crash out but I woke up thinking about the quality of life I’m living and it’s so fucking sad. Fuck all of you involved in this shit hole of a county, I fucking hate you all. Fuck APC too, Fuck me & Fuck U too cos we are way too scared to demand a better life for us and for our unborn kids.
I’m not asking for too much just the basic things dawg, the fucking basic things to live a comfortable life, why can’t my own country government give me that, do I have to Japa, how many people fit japa. We really gotta make things work mehn cos this country is damaged.
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