Forget a break up, have you ever met a person you had a brief but insane connection with and then the universe was like oops wait sorry that wasn't actually supposed to happen.
Girl stop stressing about what he is doing. Let that man live his life, text who he wants to and make his choices. If he is okay with messing it up then he is not meant for you and that’s okay. Stop losing your mind over things you can't control
i’m not argumentative, but I am very much the person that wants to break it all down so we don’t have this issue again. things left unsaid have a weird way of being used later, and I like to avoid that.
“They’re using you”. Actually, they’re receiving genuine love from me while they play themselves bc one thing about life, is that it always catches up to you sooner or later. I’ll never regret the kindness I pour out.🫶🏽
if something bothers you, say it while it’s small.
don’t let it ferment into silence, attitude, or resentment and then explode like I was supposed to read your mind. i listen. i ask questions. i adjust. but I can’t fix what you never communicate.
i’d rather have an honest, slightly uncomfortable conversation than deal with passive aggression, mixed signals, or “you should have known.”
When you hurt someone with a good heart, they won’t always fight back or make a fuss. They’ll bear the pain in silence, turning it over in their mind, trying to make sense of it without adding to the hurt.
But slowly, they’ll pull away. No dramatic farewell, no angry outburst—just quiet withdrawal. They won’t become cruel, but they’ll stop letting you in. And once their trust is shattered, it’s not easily repaired.
That’s how you really lose them—not the moment they walk away, but the moment they stop believing.
Because when a kind heart lets go, it’s never out of spite.. It’s simply because they’ve reached their limit.
I’ve came to terms with the fact that I really am allowed to feel however I want to feel about any situation, without anyone else having to understand why I feel the way I do.