If they wanna talk to you, they would. If they wanna be with you, they would. If they wanna make things work, they would. Don’t ever let things be one sided, it’s not healthy nor fair for you.
Men make time for what we want, we spoil who we want, and no matter how dumb we pretend to be, we are aware of what women need romantically. The truth is, each man will give as much or as little as he feels. Getting the short end of the stick proves where you rank in his world.
I feel like, as humans, we should all stand for something. People should know what to expect from you.
“Don’t try that with her, she won’t take it “
“You can give him the job, he’ll deliver.”
“If he says he’ll be there by 8 a.m., take his word for it.”
Don’t be an anyhow person.
Relationships where there’s no communication everyday is a recipe for disaster. You don’t know what your partner is up to. Whether they are having a good or bad day. You don’t keep eachother up to date on day to day activities or new developments. You’re only dating yourself.
Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.