@AfrobeatArena@Teeniiola Omugwo is about postpartum care for the mother and the baby(helping the mother heal,cooking for her, taking care of the baby, teaching her how to care for herself and the baby)
Not enjoyment
If the father can provide postpartum care, then he can do omugwo
Some men do omugwo
unpopular opinion?
There’s no ‘beauty standard’ in Nigeria, only sexualization
Being considered beautiful in Nigeria depends mostly on your facial features and there is no standard
Once the conversation has moved to body type?….
I will not hesitate to spoil the mood once I hear any sexist talk around me. You must explain what you mean by that and why you’ve chosen to remain foolish in the 21st century.
I’m going to keep my thing brief. False rape accusations are terrible. Males get raped too but do you know why you’re a foolish man? Because you never advocate for these crimes against men unless women are talking about their experiences. I.e, you don’t care about these crimes1/3
Women are angry about rape, domestic violence, abuse, femicide, sexual harassment and discrimination. Men are angry that women are speaking up about these things in “impolite ways” on the internet. You people will come and try and false equivalence the two. It is well. Say na mob
The issue with this thing I have realized, is actually men
Because once a woman is giving birth, her friends would be thinking of how to support her.
The man’s friends on the other hand, want to go and sit at the bar and wait for when he can finish running around to tell them that the baby is born
People that even expect him to leave the family for their friend that was shot 😂😂😂
You people are doing yourselves!
You keep crying about men’s emotional needs yet you can’t even support yourselves properly
Yes, have you asked that your friend whose wife is having a prolonged labor how he’s faring? Have you called the one that had the baby in an incubator after to pray with him and remind him to relax?
You’re laughing 🤡
Bloody lie from the pit of hell fire.
And I don’t understand this incessant need to attach women’s sex drive to a tenet of purity.
To say that a woman’s sex drive is somehow a derivative or righteousness.
God forbid a girl just wants to FUCK sometimes 🤣
What’s funny about this is that a number of these scenarios he’s advising men against are actual rape (sleeping with a woman who’s too drunk to consent, continuing after someone has said no, etc) yet he’s still framing them as a “false accusation”
It’s not a false rape accusation if you actually raped someone
They know. The reason they fight so hard against those definitions isn’t ignorance but self preservation. To acknowledge the full scope of rape would mean confronting the uncomfortable truth that many of their own "normal" behaviors fit inside it. Its would force them to see